Four Unnecessary Questions Women Ask Men

Questions are asked for the sake of obtaining information that will help the person get a better understanding of something or affirmation to what they already know.

However, in a marriage relationship, there are questions that are meant to be kept under the carpet to avoid arguments or feelings of low esteem.

Some questions have led to the break-up of relationships.

We are all wired differently when it comes to perceptions, ideas, knowledge and understanding.

Here are five unnecessary questions women ask their spouse. 

Do you notice any change in my appearance /

Asking your man if he noticed anything different in your appearance is like him taking you to his car and opening the car hood and asking you what you notice

This kind of question is definitely going to generate a response that will insinuate a lot of things to you and thus lead to an argument.

The way I see it, this is a setup question women bring up to psych their men mostly to know what he feels about them.

The problem with this kind of question is that most men are likely going to say the wrong thing because he doesn’t want to demolish your own poor self-image if you constantly think negatively about how you look.

Give your husband the ability to affirm you without feeling like they are going to get in trouble if they get it wrong.

Do you think this dress makes me fat?

 This is a stupid question because the man will never give you an honest answer and you don’t want to know the honest answer to this question. Men do not fall for that trap because she doesn’t want the honest truth.

Why not check out your weight yourself? Even if you are big, he wouldn’t tell you because he doesn’t want you to feel bad so he pretends like he is not seeing it.

So what are you thinking?

Never ask a man the above question when he is watching his favorite football game. You are likely to get blank stares.

With men, this question is about timing. Part of learning to tolerate one another is learning to embrace what is important to the opposite sex. We need to learn to ask better questions with better timing.

Do you think that woman is prettier than me?

Never ask your man if another woman is prettier than you, he will give you the wrong answer.

He will never give you an honest answer to that question so that he doesn’t hurt your feelings which will likely make you feel insecure.

Comparing the beauty of another woman who you already think is prettier than you will only put your man on the spot.

( From Nations newspaper)

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