Things To Consider Before Reconciling With Former Partner

While many long-term relationships sail through the break-up and patch-up phase and this is something that keeps both the partners close together, however, before reconciling with your former partner there are a few things that one should consider. Here are three things you should consider before rushing back to your former partner or friend.

Ask yourself if you still love him/her

Many people reconcile with a former friend or partner  just because they feel guilty about leaving them because of a minor mistake. However, don’t make a decision because you have empathy for him or her. Ask yourself if you still love him/her and are willing to go back for the sake of love. Sit in isolation and think. You may find your answer.

Ask yourself will they ever change

If it’s about an apology from him or her, analyse whether your partner seriously means it or is it just out of habit they are doing it. Many of us tend to dismiss the fact that our partner won’t change. We fool ourselves by giving reasons that he or she might have changed and must be willing to be back with us. However, your decision of going back shouldn’t be based on words like might and maybe. Get some sure ground before you make up your mind.

Reflect upon why you left in the first place

The most important thing you should consider before going back to your former spouse or friend  is why did you leave in the first place. Give yourself time to think about it. Don’t be biased, just identify the reason, recall it and find out if that’s something you can forgive them for. If the answer is serious enough for you to have second thoughts about returning, then you should probably give yourself some time before you finally make a decision.

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