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Six Ways To Avoid Cheating In A relationship
It is undisputable that for anyone in a relationship that cheating is one of the most difficult issues that one may confront and it is something that despite every effort to avoid, it cannot be done away with for some people.
We can assume most partners will cheat at some point in a committed relationship. Cheating sometimes could be the cause of divorce and at other times as a symptom of a weakened relationship.
Don’t Be Jealous, Be Better
If you suspect your partner’s attention may be drifting elsewhere, it may push them further away to become angry and critical with them. You can’t keep a partner around reliably or happily using threats and fear.
Understand your Partner
Your partner has all kinds of secret thoughts and feelings they probably don’t tell you, or possibly anyone. Encourage honesty with a lot of compassion and no judgment. Find out the few things about your partner that no one else knows. Use that information to ‘be on the inside’ every day in terms of their experiences in the relationship, at work, and with themselves.
Understand and meet need of your partner
The best defense to avoid cheating is a great relationship. When our needs are met physically and emotionally, we don’t have as much interest to look elsewhere. Examine how well you meet your partner’s wants and needs, and how well they meet yours.
Have agreements
There should be a conversation on what constitutes cheating, because initially partners may not be on the same page. Partners can have very different ideas on what constitutes an emotional affair, and if it qualifies as cheating.
Go for occasional counseling
Counseling, even a few sessions here and there, can help us develop a more comprehensive map of how to tend to our partnerships and share life together more enjoyably.
Justify Your Existence
Anything you don’t provide in terms of emotional, intellectual and physical needs, your partner will look to others for. Ensure you provide the emotional, psychological needs of your partner so as to avoid looking outside.
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