Six Ways To Handle A High Tempered Partner

Being high tempered is a highly challenging situation especially in marriage, when a partner is constrained to live with such for the lifespan of the marriage.  Here are ways to live with such behaviour in marriage:

Know that your silence is not weakness

One other reason people tend to engage hot-tempered persons, especially if it has become a habit, is that they do not want to be seen as weak. Being silent or taking a walk when a partner is raging is not a sign of weakness but of strength.

Don’t kill your feelings

To some, taking a walk when an issue is about degenerating could mean that they are killing their feelings, all in the name of peace.

Don’t be hard on yourself

That you are able to keep calm in the face of anger is a sign of strength, because it means you can control your emotion and it means you are cut out to be a leader.

The hallmark of strength is when you keep quiet in such situations because everybody wants to speak when there is an issue.

Know when to step aside

Until people who are hot-tempered have satisfactorily expressed their anger in any given circumstance, they seem not to care about anything else.  

One of the best ways to avoid troubles when having an issue with someone that is high tempered is to step aside, not only for safety, but also to prevent the issue from festering.

Don’t try to compete with them

 If your partner is high tempered, the first thing people need to know is that two wrongs cannot make a right. When he is angry, that is the time for the partner to be calm, because the moment the partner becomes angry, tempers would rise and the situation would escalate.

Let them know how you feel about their temperament

The most important thing to do if someone in your life has tantrums that affect you is to sit the person down and seriously describe how the tantrums affect you.

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