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“Why You Shouldn’t Wash Or Cook For Your Boyfriend” – Actress Christabel Egbenya
Nollywood actress Christabel Egbenya has cautioned young girls against going to their boyfriends’ houses to perform wifely duties such as cooking, cleaning, and doing all sorts of erotic things on the bed.
The newly married mother of one made this known in response to a viral video of a girl who invested all her savings in her boyfriend, who subsequently eloped with another lover to overseas.
According to Christabel Egbenya, giving a man money or performing wifely duties for him is not a guarantee that he will marry you.
She advised young girls to stop wasting their time and energy trying to convince men that they are marriageable by doing things that are not expected of them.
In a video posted on her verified Instagram page, the actress said,
“This message is for all of you who are yet to get married, yet you pack your bags to a man’s house turning yourself into his wife. You will wash, iron, cook his food, wash his bathroom, and give him access to all your sexual parts. Tomorrow when he dumps you for another person, you will start crying and complaining. Why will he not dump you? When you have offered him all you have. Stop being a wife when he has not paid your bride price.”
Christabel Egbenya also urged young girls to stop giving men money, warning that they may end up being disappointed when the men eventually do not marry them.
The actress had earlier argued on the extent to which a man can go to marry a woman he is in love with.
Speaking on her TV Talk Show, Egbenya claimed that money is never the issue for any man’s inability to marry the woman he truly loves. She added that such a man can go to the extent of borrowing to have the love of his life as his wife.
According to her, when a man seems to be dragging his feet about marriage, it’s a sign that he isn’t satisfied with the woman’s persona, and it’s only right for that woman to look for love elsewhere to avoid regrets.
Christabel Egbenya said: “If a man wants to marry you, he will not delay you; he’ll marry you. Men actually know what they want. I’m telling you the truth. If a man is in love with you and wants to marry you, he will not waste time.”
“He’ll even borrow money sef. He might not tell you. I’m just telling you so you don’t waste your time.
“If he’s telling you stories, or you think he’s still telling you stories. Maybe he’s still trying to know who you are, the real you.
“Maybe he’s not comfortable with some of your characters or attitudes.”
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