Five Things You Should Not Do When Your Partner Cheats On You

Whether they confess to you or you find out that your partner has cheated on you, you’ll feel a lot of emotions ranging from rejection to betrayal, but how you deal with this information makes all the difference. Here’s what you should never do:

Break their properties

You are human being and not an animal; therefore, don’t start breaking their television, car, or furniture and acting deranged.

You lose their respect and you might not need their respect—but what of your self-respect? Moreover, you could get arrested for it. Don’t be a violent person.

Ask them why they did it

You are setting yourself up to be manipulated. You don’t need to know why your partner cheated on you; they made a choice, and it had nothing to do with you. They could have come to you with their issues concerning the relationship, but instead, they chose to cheat on you.

Find out who the person is

Don’t go down the rabbit hole of finding out who your partner cheated on you with, stalking them, or worse, confronting them in person and telling them to leave your partner.   They have no responsibility to you; face the person who is committed to you.

Crying and begging them not to leave you

This makes you seem less valuable in their eyes. It’s okay to cry in private or with your friends, but please don’t cry and beg them to their faces or through long text messages.

They made their choice, especially if they were asking for a breakup. Accept your loss and move on.

Cheat back

If you find out your partner is cheating or cheated on you, there is no need to cheat back to even the score.

Open relationships seldom work. Decide if you want to forgive them or not. If you don’t want to forgive him or her, let them go.

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