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Our ‘Church Boys’ Are Not Bold Enough to Approach Us – Nigerian Lady Laments (Video)
By Gideon Ayeni
A viral video circulating on social media has shown a Church Lady lamenting the failure of Church Boys to approach her and other ladies in the church for marriage
In the video, she lamented the reluctance of young men in the church to approach women for marriage, highlighting that many women, including herself, are getting older and expect to be courted by church boys, but that they are refusing to come forward.
In her heartfelt plea, the woman questioned why church boys seem too timid to approach them, noting that it is often unbelievers who muster the courage to do so. She recounted how a 20-year-old unbeliever confidently approached her, leaving her to wonder where he found such boldness.
Watch the video below;
The video has sparked a flurry of reactions online. Many netizens shared their thoughts in the comments section, with some suggesting that she might be more open to unbelievers since church boys haven’t approached her. Others advised her to take a proactive approach and make the first move towards the church boys instead of waiting for them to come to her.
Read some netizens’ reactions below;
@bruzeee: You better approach who you like even as a female
@maneekofficial: I think she asked that question because she’s in a relationship with an unbeliever. She has fallen for one of those boys she was talking about.
@daniboy: Who said you can’t go after a man? You never ready to settle down
@krugaal: What’s is the big deal approaching a man of your choice in a relationship.
@enyinwa: If church girls first go meet church boys dem no go make heaven again?
The video highlights a common issue in religious communities where traditional gender roles and expectations can sometimes hinder relationships. The woman’s candid question has prompted a broader discussion on the dynamics of dating and marriage within the church and the dilemma for ladies.
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