Why Many Who Should Be Married Are Still Single

A lot of people who are supposed to be married or in a serious relationship are still single due to reasons arising from their personal choices and also sometimes to circumstances of fate.

Many who indeed should be married are living a single life for the following reasons.

Fear of intimacy

If you are someone who believes “being attached is risky” that might just be the main problem. It will be hard to be in a relationship because you protect your feelings too much which will hinder you from opening up to the potential partner.

Waiting for perfect person

You want a perfect person, a person without any challenge whereas there is no perfect person. So, you refuse to give anyone who doesn’t fit in your “standard” of the perfect partner a chance.

Low self-esteem

Before anyone can love you just the way you’re, you have to love yourself extraordinarily first. Be confident in your skin and body, value yourself every time.  Not having confidence  in one’s self tends to reflect in how we present ourselves ranging from posture, thoughts, behaviors, which however might be a “red flag” to our potential partner.

The right person isn’t here

People always have unrealistic expectations for a partner or are quick to pinpoint weaknesses from the moment they meet someone.

Being critical in your assessment of a potential partner might make you undermine them before even giving them a chance,  while hoping your kind of partner will soon show up.

Fear of the past

It’s understandable when the idea of dating makes you cringe after going through a tough or bad breakup and that is one of the reasons why many who ordinarily should be married remain single. It can be difficult but then try to heal and forgive your ex-partner so you can move on. Also, give another person a chance to love you just the way you deserve to be loved.

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