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Unusual Wedding Rite: Groom Shaves Bride’s Private Parts Before Kinsmen (Video)
By Benjamin Abioye
A shocking tradition has sparked debate as a Lady reveals that in her tribe, brides are not allowed to shave until marriage, when the groom and his kinsmen perform the ritual.
In a surprising revelation, a Nigerian lady has shared details of an unusual cultural practice within her tribe that prohibits women from shaving their private parts until marriage.
The disclosure, made during a virtual interview with popular media personality Daddy Freeze, has since ignited widespread discussions on social media.
During the interview, the lady explained that in her community, it is forbidden for unmarried women to shave their armpits and private areas. The tradition dictates that the responsibility of shaving these areas falls on the groom and his kinsmen on the wedding night, a ritual performed in their presence.
Daddy Freeze, taken aback by the revelation, questioned whether the kinsmen involved in the ritual were women. The lady clarified that they were, in fact, men, and the process was carried out in their presence. She defended the tradition, arguing that it was something they had grown accustomed to, drawing a parallel with gynecologists who examine women professionally.
However, Daddy Freeze countered her argument, emphasizing that medical professionals operate under ethical guidelines, unlike traditional practices rooted in customs.
The revelation has sparked intense reactions online, with many Nigerians expressing shock, disbelief, and criticism of the tradition.
Some social media users outrightly condemned the practice, labeling it as archaic and humiliating. Twitter user Akereyejo (@Palermo_seun) stated, “That’s not tradition but humiliation.” Another user, EJE♎️ (@Sunnylee_1), mocked the tradition, saying, “No wonder there is smell all over.”
Others ridiculed the practice, with Lume (@OhelumeMeta_X) jokingly referring to it as “Na grass of Babylon we dey grow.” Similarly, Berries 🫐🫐🍓 (@sexyberrylush) dismissed it, saying, “Africa and their mumu traditions.”
However, a few users defended the tradition, urging outsiders to respect cultural norms. Andy (@AndrewOmonefe) commented, “Respect cultural norms. You will not understand what you are not part of.” Some users also demanded more information, questioning the credibility of the woman’s claim. Whale V (@whalevalidator1) asked, “What tribe is she from?” while fashion13vs13 (@fashioncora1313) expressed skepticism, saying, “Why is she not mentioning where she is from exactly? All she’s been saying is ‘where I come from.'”
Some even took a humorous approach, with dy/dx (@apc_must_go) sarcastically stating, “It’s true. I am one of her husband’s kinsmen. Marriage plans are in place, and the date for this particular rite is set. Even, I am one of those to shave her.”
The conversation has also raised broader concerns about women’s rights and bodily autonomy in traditional practices. Newton (@NewtonIkire) called for intervention, saying, “Where are women’s rights activists? Which ethnic nationality is this? Ah! We must come together to stop this barbaric custom.”
The controversy surrounding this tradition highlights the ongoing debate about cultural preservation versus human rights. While some argue that traditions should be respected and upheld, others believe that outdated customs must evolve to align with modern values and ethics.
As the discussion continues, many Nigerians are calling for more scrutiny of such practices and a reassessment of traditions that may infringe on personal dignity and autonomy. Whether the claim is factual or exaggerated, one thing remains certain—it has sparked a conversation that touches on the intersection of culture, modernity, and human rights in Africa.
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