Five Types Of Sex Every Couple Should Have

There is no ideal number of times every married couple should be having sex. What each couple needs or wants will vary based on their own personal preferences. “The frequency that a couple ‘should’ be sexual is the frequency that they negotiate based on their individual needs and levels of desire.

However, here are five types of sex every couple needs to have;

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1. Planned Sex

When thinking about the types of sex all couples should have, not too many people have a positive outlook on planned sex. We tend to think that if we schedule it, then it will lack the romance we associate with good lovemaking. That mindset, though, could be hurting sexual intimacy in your marriage.

A better truth to embrace is that many of the best moments in our lives are planned: vacations, lunch dates with friends, birthday celebrations, holiday gatherings. Maybe a better word than planned would be intentional. When you and your husband intentionally set aside time to make love, you are saying with your words and actions that sex is a priority. With the chaotic schedules many of us face on any given day, if we aren’t planning at least some of our sexual encounters, we’re probably not having much sex.

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2. Spontaneous Sex

When you and your husband make the most of the sexual opportunity windows that open with little notice, you keep the passion alive. Spontaneous sex is unscripted, sometimes quick and sometimes drawn out, but always powerful in reminding a couple of the freedom and fun found in sexual pleasure.

As for the types of sex all couples should have, spontaneous sex possibly is the one we should pursue the most.

3. Stress-Relief Sex

Stress-relief sex is uniquely reassuring. It is a type of comfort only the two of you can give each other, which makes it even more tender and intimate. When life’s unpredictability and tragedy throw you off course, consider connecting sexually with your husband or wife.

Lovemaking releases endorphins and hormones that naturally help us sleep better and give us a better outlook on life. Often, the best thing you can do after a stressful day is have sex.

4. Selfless Sex

Sometimes you have to take one for the team. Calling this “team sex” seemed inappropriate, so let’s go with selfless sex. There are times when you don’t feel like having sex, but you should consider it because you and your husband are a team.

It’s not that you can’t say “no,” because marriage should be a place of grace where you can decline sex for legitimate reasons. Is your desire to say “no” rooted in a legitimate reason? If not, then consider how beneficial it could be to make love to your husband. The key to this is to respond to his initiation kindly rather than begrudgingly. Ask him to do the same when you want to have sex but he isn’t in the mood.

5. Adventurous Sex

All couples should have sex that is occasionally adventurous. Adventurous can mean anything from trying a new position or touch to drawing out foreplay to having sex someplace other than your bed. As long as you are maintaining exclusivity and privacy, you have tremendous freedom to find new ways to sexually please each other.

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