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Saying No To People Without Regret
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Saying “no” is refusing to sacrifice something you love for someone else and can be done without regret. It means that you’re in control of your own time and emotions. That actually makes you more generous than someone who always does what others want them to do.
Remember that rejection is a gift
Saying “no” to someone else, you’re saying “yes” to yourself, because you’re making room for something that’s more important to you and should be done without regret.
Lets go of comparison
When you compare yourself to others or make assumptions about how they feel and act, you lose touch with your own feelings and intentions.
Understand the overall picture
Sometimes, people get angry or upset when you turn them down. They might say you’re being selfish, but they might not mean it. They might simply be frustrated.
Be reasonable when you are saying no
It’s essential to be reasonable when you turn people down. Explain to that person what you can manage without losing your own integrity.
Be firm, not rigid
Saying “no” is a skill and, like any other skill, it takes practice until you get to a point of saying so without regret. Sometimes, you might find yourself saying “yes” when, deep down, you feel like saying “no,” so you might want to consider how strong your intentions really are.
Avoid being cruel
Sometimes, others want to say “no” because they’re selfish or self-absorbed, so it’s important to respond gently and compassionately rather than cruelly or sarcastically.
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