Five Reasons Your Spouse Refuses To Apologise  After Offending You

When your spouse refuses to apologise, there is, more often than not, a deeper meaning associated with it. There could be several reasons that you need to identify within your spouse to figure out why your partner never apologizes. When your spouse refuses to apologize, these could be some of the probable reasons:

Apologising seen as a weakness

This is, unfortunately, a common yet extremely unhealthy perception of the concept and practice of apologising. As your beloved views apologising as an individual being weak, they try to avoid this practice altogether.

Your spouse’s upbringing could be the reason

If you’re feeling like she or he won’t apologise for hurting me,  the reason why may be attributed to their upbringing. There is a high chance that your partner is not familiar with the concept of apologising because they grew up in a family environment where it was rare to apologise.

It may be a tendency for perfectionism

If your husband or wife never  say I am sorry, it may also be because they are a perfectionist or have tendencies of perfectionism. So, they may be extremely hard on themselves. Being extremely critical of themselves may leave very little space or room for your spouse to apologise to you.

Poor self-esteem

A fundamental aspect of apologising is being vulnerable and admitting to the fact that you have made an error. To do this, moderate to high self-esteem is important. If your spouse refuses to apologise, it may be owing to their poor self-esteem.

 Your partner may be ashamed of apologizing

This reason ties in strongly with your spouse’s upbringing, perception of apologizing as a sign of weakness, and poor self-esteem. These three things could lead to experiencing a lot of shame about genuinely apologizing to one’s partner.

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