Touching Answers As Nigerian Woman Asks, “Why Are Men Not Wooing Us Again?” (Video)

In a thought-provoking social media post, a young lady has sparked a conversation about the changing dynamics of dating, questioning why men no longer woo women as they used to.

Reflecting on past experiences, the lady expressed her observations about how men used to chase and court women with determination, often pleading for their affection. She reminisced about a time when men would go out of their way to impress and win over a woman’s heart, without expecting intimacy in return.

“Where have the days gone when men would chase and disturb you? Why don’t men woo women anymore?” she asked, noting a significant shift in behavior.

According to her, the dating scene has drastically changed. In the past, men would make genuine efforts to win a woman’s heart before even considering intimacy. Nowadays, she observes that the reverse is true, with some men expecting physical relationships before making any real effort.

Watch the video below;

Her post has generated a lively debate online, with many users sharing their own perspectives and experiences. Some agreed with her sentiments, lamenting the loss of traditional courtship and the rise of more transactional relationships. Others argued that societal changes, including the influence of technology and shifting gender roles, have altered the way people approach dating and relationships.

Read some netizens’ reactions below;

@balatic: Because many women have turned every wooing to opportunities for billings 😂😅

@shile_matrix: If I don toast you 1 week and you still no gimme response I don kommot mind be that, I no fit dey beg Gød make I still dey beg woman. O wrong nah 🥺

@adamsomoboriowo: Men don’t woo ladies again, because we now know that relationship with you people are now like poverty alleviation scheme.We believe that dating you people means we expose ourselves to unnecessary billings where you turn us to your father!

@chybyke: Why woo what you can pay for…. You guys made it a commodity, who in their right senses woos a commodity.

@kotociaface: The reason is men have learned their lesson and social media made it possible, i am a Millennial and I know how many girls that didn’t give me straight answers that I took on several dates,did favors,called,texted etc and at the end of the day I no see pant color,some even said to us “did I beg you”, many men did a lot of stupid things for love and at the end we were called fools, Now we are grown, we have social media and we are using it to tell Gen Z men not to go through what we went through ,we are saving them from been called fools and taken for granted, they should concentrate on chasing money,if a good girl comes along you hold her and appreciate her,but don’t because of sex do stupid things,if you want sex,go and buy it, they are everywhere,online and offline,go straight to point,prize and pay.

While opinions differ, the discussion highlights a broader conversation about the evolution of dating practices and what it means for both men and women in today’s world.
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