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Video: Drama As “Female Pastor” Insists Women Check Manhood Before Marriage
By Benjamin Abioye

A female pastor’s shocking comment, advising women to check a man’s manhood before marriage, has sparked a major debate, with many reacting strongly across social media.
Social media has been buzzing after a woman, described as a pastor, made a bold and unexpected statement during a discussion on the rising rate of divorce.
Speaking passionately in a video now making rounds online, she said, “I am one of the women of God who believes that before you marry a man, you must see his penis. You must feel it, you must hold it, and make sure it’s working.”
Noticing the host’s stunned expression, she asked, “Why are you looking uncomfortable like that?”
The reaction online was immediate, with users split between support, shock, and sarcasm.
Some found her honesty refreshing. A user, @NoWhere2Hid, commented, “Lol… I like her energy! Remember to sample it before committing!” Another, @Charisma4all, joked, “Na why I dey test them one after the other be that.”
Others, however, raised concerns about her message clashing with Christian values. @powerchibueze wrote, “Is she talking from the Bible? Maybe from her experience, but scripture says ‘marriage is holy when the bed is undefiled.’”
A few pointed out that she didn’t necessarily advocate for premarital sex, just a form of physical confirmation. @jabaevit said, “She didn’t say they should have sex… just find a way to check if it’s working — maybe on a bike ride together.”
Still, some users felt her statement was inappropriate, especially coming from someone who claims to be a woman of God. “Mrs Pastor, is this biblical too?” asked @bukaogidi. Another, @Innocris123, simply said, “This is what some people are saying with shame.”
The video has sparked broader conversations about transparency, sexual compatibility, and boundaries in relationships — especially in faith-based communities. While the debate continues, it’s clear that this “pastor’s” comments have struck a nerve, for better or worse.
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